When you are ready to make that change in your life go at it full force, no regrets but with ultimate desire to reach your goal. Taking control of one's life is the best thing one can do for themselves.
About a month ago a "nobody" told me he would date me if I was thinner. In response I said, well in all honesty I wouldn't date you; you lack MANY characteristics of a gentleman, thank you goodbye. It did hurt for a second but I thought of all those other woman who may not be as tough as me.
So this is my reminder to you lovely ladies - love doesn't see one's size or body shape - it sees your heart. Happy Tuesday!
Peace & Love