Dear Universe, I want to land the most amazing CONTRACT ever that allows me to get to my Secret Board $$$$ amount :-) I also want to travel across the world specifically to Japan, China, France, Spain, and Morocco. I want to open up my own little business right in the middle of my hometown. ALSO, I want to meet other go-getters like myself and CHANGE THE WORLD!
Lately, I have been most of my writing ideas at night before I head to bed. Lately that has not been happening. I have an item on my to-do list and I have been rather procrastinating. It is VERY HORRIBLE of me. But, I am determined to get it down tomorrow maybe or tonight even.
I strongly believe in the law of attraction? Do you know that is...??? Let me help you. Watch this short youtube clip...the wonders of youtube! I make specific to love, lol I know don't judge me but it makes my point.
So, I always keep focus on what I want and I want the Universe to Listen to me. I just have this feeling that I am almost there! I am halfway there I just need to be fully there. Have I mentioned, I love getting older, wiser, and beautiful.
I think this is enough for tonight. Goodnight!
Peace and Love
Friday, January 17, 2014
Thursday, January 16, 2014
The Challenge Begins at Golds Gym
Since I started the challenge at Golds Gym in Pharr (I got suckered into this since I am visiting family) I have been doing so much cardio. I weighed in on January 13, 2014 at 4:45pm. I got my weight assessments done and my photo taken for our before and after pics. I am rather enthusiastic about this cool adventure. This will be my third attempt at trying to bring my weight down. Looking back at past attempts I can conclude that I kinda lacked a little enthusiasm and I didn't break out of my comfort zone. I did same routines, walking for an hour and that was it.
As a result, I have a personal trainer in Austin Texas - Jessica is awesome! and I have a trainer in South Texas through my challenge! Since I travel a lot I can't have excuses anymore. This year is my year to shine. I can't wait to show off my hard work on my body. I can't wait to take that after pic and everyone will be OH MY GUR! - I am ALREADY sexy I will be more than that! A Beautiful, Intelligent, Sexy, ALL NATURAL Successful Latina Woman. Loud and Proud! Having said that I came up with a goal of working out at least twice a day. I started that yesterday and I plan to keep doing it.
One thing is for sure, I am determined to clean up my health act. I want to live to be 100 years old and I can only be there if I take care of myself. I don't want to be 60 years old and suffering from medical conditions. I want to prevent as much as I can so that I may live life. But, it isn't easy it is very difficult. I kinda shock myself when I say that because I am a woman who has accomplished so much in such a short time. As a colleague said to me, Mari you attained a Masters degree, I think you can do this. That comment in itself just inspired more and motivated me that I have had challenges and I overcame them and challenging myself to be healthy should be a piece of cake.
Peace and Love.
As a result, I have a personal trainer in Austin Texas - Jessica is awesome! and I have a trainer in South Texas through my challenge! Since I travel a lot I can't have excuses anymore. This year is my year to shine. I can't wait to show off my hard work on my body. I can't wait to take that after pic and everyone will be OH MY GUR! - I am ALREADY sexy I will be more than that! A Beautiful, Intelligent, Sexy, ALL NATURAL Successful Latina Woman. Loud and Proud! Having said that I came up with a goal of working out at least twice a day. I started that yesterday and I plan to keep doing it.
One thing is for sure, I am determined to clean up my health act. I want to live to be 100 years old and I can only be there if I take care of myself. I don't want to be 60 years old and suffering from medical conditions. I want to prevent as much as I can so that I may live life. But, it isn't easy it is very difficult. I kinda shock myself when I say that because I am a woman who has accomplished so much in such a short time. As a colleague said to me, Mari you attained a Masters degree, I think you can do this. That comment in itself just inspired more and motivated me that I have had challenges and I overcame them and challenging myself to be healthy should be a piece of cake.
Peace and Love.
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Happy Birthday to my Daddy-O!
I am one of four children, the baby. Spoiled? Not gonna deny, my dad always made sure I had a smile on my face. He is my inspiration to doing the best I can do each and every day. In one word my father can some me up as "Industrious." He is right.
He is a tough man. Short of words. Man of Actions. He is stern in his words but shares his knowledge and his experiences with me. I am who I am today because he was tough with me. At an early age learned that no one will do things for me and I will have to take care of things on my one.
First lesson, I was about 19..."Dad my car won't turn on, I believe it may be the battery...." he replies, "well go get a new one." Yup, at 19 I bought my first car battery and installed it myself! Can you believe that. Now, looking back, I know he did it all with good reason.
So on this day, I am thrilled to be able to take him out to dinner and enjoy some good laughs at the dinner table. Thank you God for blessing me with such amazing parents, my best friends. But today I am blessed to celebrate his birthday - oh yeah, Happy Dance!
Peace and Love
Sunday, January 12, 2014
Relationships: My First Love.
Since my blog is a little bit about everything I'd like to talk about my first love. Those who know me very well know him. You all know how much I loved him with all my heart, unconditionally. At 31 I can I understand the meaning to love unconditionally.
We met when I was in highschool. He was about two or three years older than me. My cousin was dating his neighbor and they thought we would be perfect for each other. I was shy then. I was very naive, sheltered, conservative. My parents were hard core when it came to me and dating and how a woman should be behave.
He had my heart. I can even remember how he told me he loved me. The first and last time I ever had a guy or man (whatever you wanna call them) tell me he loved me. We were talking on the phone during our late night talks. I lived in an old wooden home then, I was like 15. We were talking on the phone and I had this joy in my heart and I recall whispering to him that I think I liked him...he responded with "I don't" lol, it was kinda funny I felt like holy moley! Then he followed it with, "I think I love you." My heart melted, my heart began to beat as fast as it could. From then on we were inseparable.
He was the love of my life. Tall, dark and handsome. He always surprised me with gifts. We had our Friday movie nights and dates. Since I was raised very traditional with conservative values, I was always home no later than midnight. Our relationship lasted about 8 years, it began when I was a month or two shy of 15 and he was 17. We did almost everything together. I supported him in everything that he wanted to do. I wanted to just be the best girlfriend ever. I got to meet his family and they made me and included me as one of the family. We were both deeply in love with one another. He had his ambitions and I had mine, my education. Upon graduation of highschool he proposed marriage on me but my father declined the proposal. He told him he had to have something to offer me. Three proposals later I was engaged and to be married on February 17, 2004 I think. I had a nice fancy ring that I loved playing J. Lo's Jenny from the Block song. It was so me. With all the happiness and joy we had things just got different. As I matured, our relationship began to take different turn. I mentioned I was naive right? Well, in every relationship there is always a downfall...
The guy I loved with all my heart, the guy that I was about to spend the rest of my life with had cheated on me. The betrayal was beyond hurtful. Obviously, our engagement was broken off. I would have been 9 years married to date. Thank God! You see, it was the most painful part of my life. Loving someone with all my heart and to be living in a lie. Marriage is sacred for me and to know that my future husband could be unfaithful to me before marriage I only saw misery in my future. Years after I tried to heal. To be honest, I had just began the healing process in 2008. It took me being the bigger person to forgive him. He broke my heart in to many pieces that I felt like there was no way in patching it back up again. I can't seem to understand why he did what he did. I was the perfect woman, loved him and I did not just say it I showed it. I have forgiven him in 2009 and I have peace in my heart.
Today, I find myself understanding my failed relationships. My faith in God keeps in me optimistic but like any woman we are always trying to understand whether it was something we did or could have done better. Men these days do not have appreciation for women. Our world lacks gentlemen. But there is one thing for sure, I had experienced what love is and could be. I know now what I don't want but what I need in my love life. God knows the desires of my heart and I pray each day that he blesses me. With that, I have to be patient. I have to trust that the Lord will bless me. I am certain that he will because it will take a special kind of man to be with me - a beautiful, assertive, loving, caring and ambitious woman. Women, don't lose faith in love. Look at me. I dedicated most of my young life to a man who could not love me as much. But I am optimistic that I will walk down the aisle one day in a beautiful gown. I promise you will too.
Peace and Love.
We met when I was in highschool. He was about two or three years older than me. My cousin was dating his neighbor and they thought we would be perfect for each other. I was shy then. I was very naive, sheltered, conservative. My parents were hard core when it came to me and dating and how a woman should be behave.
He had my heart. I can even remember how he told me he loved me. The first and last time I ever had a guy or man (whatever you wanna call them) tell me he loved me. We were talking on the phone during our late night talks. I lived in an old wooden home then, I was like 15. We were talking on the phone and I had this joy in my heart and I recall whispering to him that I think I liked him...he responded with "I don't" lol, it was kinda funny I felt like holy moley! Then he followed it with, "I think I love you." My heart melted, my heart began to beat as fast as it could. From then on we were inseparable.
He was the love of my life. Tall, dark and handsome. He always surprised me with gifts. We had our Friday movie nights and dates. Since I was raised very traditional with conservative values, I was always home no later than midnight. Our relationship lasted about 8 years, it began when I was a month or two shy of 15 and he was 17. We did almost everything together. I supported him in everything that he wanted to do. I wanted to just be the best girlfriend ever. I got to meet his family and they made me and included me as one of the family. We were both deeply in love with one another. He had his ambitions and I had mine, my education. Upon graduation of highschool he proposed marriage on me but my father declined the proposal. He told him he had to have something to offer me. Three proposals later I was engaged and to be married on February 17, 2004 I think. I had a nice fancy ring that I loved playing J. Lo's Jenny from the Block song. It was so me. With all the happiness and joy we had things just got different. As I matured, our relationship began to take different turn. I mentioned I was naive right? Well, in every relationship there is always a downfall...
The guy I loved with all my heart, the guy that I was about to spend the rest of my life with had cheated on me. The betrayal was beyond hurtful. Obviously, our engagement was broken off. I would have been 9 years married to date. Thank God! You see, it was the most painful part of my life. Loving someone with all my heart and to be living in a lie. Marriage is sacred for me and to know that my future husband could be unfaithful to me before marriage I only saw misery in my future. Years after I tried to heal. To be honest, I had just began the healing process in 2008. It took me being the bigger person to forgive him. He broke my heart in to many pieces that I felt like there was no way in patching it back up again. I can't seem to understand why he did what he did. I was the perfect woman, loved him and I did not just say it I showed it. I have forgiven him in 2009 and I have peace in my heart.
Today, I find myself understanding my failed relationships. My faith in God keeps in me optimistic but like any woman we are always trying to understand whether it was something we did or could have done better. Men these days do not have appreciation for women. Our world lacks gentlemen. But there is one thing for sure, I had experienced what love is and could be. I know now what I don't want but what I need in my love life. God knows the desires of my heart and I pray each day that he blesses me. With that, I have to be patient. I have to trust that the Lord will bless me. I am certain that he will because it will take a special kind of man to be with me - a beautiful, assertive, loving, caring and ambitious woman. Women, don't lose faith in love. Look at me. I dedicated most of my young life to a man who could not love me as much. But I am optimistic that I will walk down the aisle one day in a beautiful gown. I promise you will too.
Peace and Love.
Thursday, January 09, 2014
I am not Fat but Fabulous!
I am going to talk about a very sensitive topic...my weight gain. Yes I am going there. For the past four years I have been unable to lose weight. It didn't matter on my food intake or exercise I tried everything. Up until last year I kind of gave up. I didn't go to the gym at all did some walking. I am not sure what depression is but I think I may have gone through it. After being told by not one but two men who are a disgrace to the male race that lack respect for women, called me FAT! Yes. They did. It didn't hurt, I did try to understand why but I had to see beyond their name calling and realized that I DID GAIN WEIGHT.
I have a personal trainer that to be quite honest has not given up on me. She knows I am on the road and busy and she keeps me motivated. As I got home for my days events and my Gym workout at Golds Gym I have in my inbox a message from her. First I had to see this video:
Then she followed it with:
You see I have so much self confidence and never in my life had I encountered someone calling me a name because of my weight. I guess people never mature. Oh and I did give him a piece of my mind. But now, I am at a point where I need to challenge myself to finally overcome this challenge of weight loss. I used to be thin, a nice size 10 a 12 the most. Now, I am beyond a size 14. I never thought I would be in this place. It kinda is not a good feeling. I finally am going to make myself, my health a number one priority and I have to make it part of my priorities. It was easy for me to dismiss it for the past year but not anymore.
Oh and note to men: Please don't call women FAT or anything close to it. They don't deserve it. Plus, beauty is not defined by the pant size of a person. I know a lot of people who result to plastic surgery as their way of dealing with their weight. I refuse to do that. I want to work at it. But, its hard enough as it is so the name calling needs to stop.
I can't believe I just shared with you this little piece of me but I just couldn't hold it in anymore. This is my third attempt and I am determined to get back where I need to be.
Photos of me in Morocco 2009. The beginning of my weight gain immediately after a legislative session.
Since then this is the most recent pic of me to date as of November 30, 2013 and Dec 31, 2013.
Its not a full body but it will do for now. I will be posting before and after pics once I get my physical assessment done with my trainer after Jan. 13th, 2014. I will post a more decent before pic. This is a journey for me but know that my spirit is happy, I am happy and I am determined. I got this. Know that if you are struggling with a challenge similar to mine, the hardest part is taking the first step towards a positive change. Trust me, it will get better. It takes one person to believe in you, let it be you.
Peace & Love
I have a personal trainer that to be quite honest has not given up on me. She knows I am on the road and busy and she keeps me motivated. As I got home for my days events and my Gym workout at Golds Gym I have in my inbox a message from her. First I had to see this video:
Then she followed it with:
When you watch this video, it puts things into perspective. Everyone has their own story, their own goals, and own obstacles to overcome. His story is proof, that we cannot place limits on what we are capable of doing, because we often do not know our own potential. Neither Arthur, nor Dallas knew what he would go on to accomplish, but this video speaks for itself. In less than a year, Arthur completely transformed his life. If only he had known what he was capable of, 15 years earlier.
Do not waste any time thinking you are stuck - you can take control over your life, and change it faster than you might think.
You see I have so much self confidence and never in my life had I encountered someone calling me a name because of my weight. I guess people never mature. Oh and I did give him a piece of my mind. But now, I am at a point where I need to challenge myself to finally overcome this challenge of weight loss. I used to be thin, a nice size 10 a 12 the most. Now, I am beyond a size 14. I never thought I would be in this place. It kinda is not a good feeling. I finally am going to make myself, my health a number one priority and I have to make it part of my priorities. It was easy for me to dismiss it for the past year but not anymore.
Oh and note to men: Please don't call women FAT or anything close to it. They don't deserve it. Plus, beauty is not defined by the pant size of a person. I know a lot of people who result to plastic surgery as their way of dealing with their weight. I refuse to do that. I want to work at it. But, its hard enough as it is so the name calling needs to stop.
I can't believe I just shared with you this little piece of me but I just couldn't hold it in anymore. This is my third attempt and I am determined to get back where I need to be.
Photos of me in Morocco 2009. The beginning of my weight gain immediately after a legislative session.
Since then this is the most recent pic of me to date as of November 30, 2013 and Dec 31, 2013.
Its not a full body but it will do for now. I will be posting before and after pics once I get my physical assessment done with my trainer after Jan. 13th, 2014. I will post a more decent before pic. This is a journey for me but know that my spirit is happy, I am happy and I am determined. I got this. Know that if you are struggling with a challenge similar to mine, the hardest part is taking the first step towards a positive change. Trust me, it will get better. It takes one person to believe in you, let it be you.
Peace & Love
Tuesday, January 07, 2014
2014 Register to VOTE!
Other than being a hopeless romantic I love POLITICS! Its just fascinating. So, now that we are in 2014 elections are around the corner. Since I am a native of Hidalgo County here are some important information you should know.
Voter ID is now in effect in Texas. Photo identification will now be required for voting in person, as per a Supreme Court decision which upheld the Voter ID Law requirements earlier this year. A voter will be required to show one of the following acceptable forms of photo identification at the polling location before the voter will be permitted to cast a vote:
Voter ID is now in effect in Texas. Photo identification will now be required for voting in person, as per a Supreme Court decision which upheld the Voter ID Law requirements earlier this year. A voter will be required to show one of the following acceptable forms of photo identification at the polling location before the voter will be permitted to cast a vote:
- Texas driver license issued by the Texas Department of Public Safety (DPS) (most common form of photo identification)
- Texas Election Identification Certificate issued by DPS
- Texas personal identification card issued by DPS
- Texas concealed handgun license issued by DPS
- United States military or Veteran Affairs identification card containing the person’s photograph
- United States citizenship or naturalization certificate containing the person’s photograph
- United States passport
- You are eligible to register and vote if you are:A) a citizen of the United States,
B) a resident of Hidalgo County,
C) at least 17 years and 10 months of age and you most be 18 years of age by election day,
D) not declared mentally incompetent by a court of law.
E) not a convicted felon, if so convicted you have:
1) fully discharged your sentence, including any term of incarceration, parole, supervision, or completed a period of probation ordered by any court; or,
2) been pardoned or otherwise release from the resulting disability to vote.For more information, contact the Elections Department at 956-318-2570.
Sunshine in my Life through the lovely Andrea Sloan
Everyone goes through life meeting many different faces, establishing strong friendships and relationships through those we encounter. I for one have been very blessed to have shared days in my life with someone I met through a wonderful amazing woman I like to call my angel, the lovely Michelle W. You see this is the memory I will forever have in my head for as long as I live.
I was legislative staffer for about 9-10 years. I had the opportunity to meet many influential individuals and many executives and many consultants. They witnessed my work ethic, my character and that says a lot about who I am. In midyear 2012, I was preparing to close out three offices, manage a committee hearing and maintain the responsibilities of a chief of staff. I did it all! As others in the industry determine where they will work next, I had no time to think about my next employment. I did know that I wanted to pursue a career in the lobby world or private sector. I had so much institutional knowledge and a good network that it was the step I needed to take. Well, my angel set me up with a very wonderful man looking for someone to work with him. I was blessed, I had something to fall back on with all the rucus going on in my life. Through all of that, I met her amazing best friend, Andrea Sloan. Seeing their friendship and how connected they were to each other made me feel very blessed to even witness it and take part in their joyous friendship. Little did I know Andrea was fighting for her life. We got hang out at Paggi House one day, her birthday I believe. She was wearing a superwoman cape and she def was a superwoman. We had small talk on the men in my life. Talked about relationships. It was nice.
I value good friendships and relationship so much. And I can't express how deeply saddened I was to hear of her passing as I spent time with family in West Texas. Remarkable people and women like Andrea are very rare. They are special, they leave imprints in peoples lives, they make a difference, they are fighters, they are just amazing. Andrea was my sunshine. She reminded me to live life, not hold back and enjoy every minute of every day. God has his angel with him. You can know more of her story with this video by KXAN.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Texas Advocacy Project or to the “Moon Shots Program” at MD Anderson Cancer Center in memory of Andrea Sloan.
Peace & Love
I was legislative staffer for about 9-10 years. I had the opportunity to meet many influential individuals and many executives and many consultants. They witnessed my work ethic, my character and that says a lot about who I am. In midyear 2012, I was preparing to close out three offices, manage a committee hearing and maintain the responsibilities of a chief of staff. I did it all! As others in the industry determine where they will work next, I had no time to think about my next employment. I did know that I wanted to pursue a career in the lobby world or private sector. I had so much institutional knowledge and a good network that it was the step I needed to take. Well, my angel set me up with a very wonderful man looking for someone to work with him. I was blessed, I had something to fall back on with all the rucus going on in my life. Through all of that, I met her amazing best friend, Andrea Sloan. Seeing their friendship and how connected they were to each other made me feel very blessed to even witness it and take part in their joyous friendship. Little did I know Andrea was fighting for her life. We got hang out at Paggi House one day, her birthday I believe. She was wearing a superwoman cape and she def was a superwoman. We had small talk on the men in my life. Talked about relationships. It was nice.
I value good friendships and relationship so much. And I can't express how deeply saddened I was to hear of her passing as I spent time with family in West Texas. Remarkable people and women like Andrea are very rare. They are special, they leave imprints in peoples lives, they make a difference, they are fighters, they are just amazing. Andrea was my sunshine. She reminded me to live life, not hold back and enjoy every minute of every day. God has his angel with him. You can know more of her story with this video by KXAN.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Texas Advocacy Project or to the “Moon Shots Program” at MD Anderson Cancer Center in memory of Andrea Sloan.
Peace & Love
One Proud Aunt
So, I have five wonderful nieces and nephews, two boys and three girls. Well my eldest nephew Sean will be auditioning for The Voice in Nashville on February 2nd. I can't express how excited and nervous I am for him. He has always had some sort of musical instrument in his hands since he was a baby. He also learned to play the piano at a very early age. There is def love for music in our family. Through him I have a greater appreciation for it.
When he decided to sign up to audition, it simply was very random. He registered Nov. 2013. Now the day is slowly creeping up. I can't wait to see him and spend this special moment with him. He is becoming a young man now. He is in his first year in college and I will be getting a special tour of his campus. Now you may be wondering how does he sing? Is he good? Well here you go folks...enjoy! He wrote this song about a year and half ago for Guitar Center's Songwriter Competition. He didn't win but it is still a very lovely song.
Please help share his Youtube song "One More Dance by Sean De Leon" and I will def keep you all updated on his status.
Peace & Love
When he decided to sign up to audition, it simply was very random. He registered Nov. 2013. Now the day is slowly creeping up. I can't wait to see him and spend this special moment with him. He is becoming a young man now. He is in his first year in college and I will be getting a special tour of his campus. Now you may be wondering how does he sing? Is he good? Well here you go folks...enjoy! He wrote this song about a year and half ago for Guitar Center's Songwriter Competition. He didn't win but it is still a very lovely song.
Please help share his Youtube song "One More Dance by Sean De Leon" and I will def keep you all updated on his status.
Peace & Love
Monday, January 06, 2014
New Years Post! Yay 2014
What can I say to start off this post...HAPPY NEW YEARS! The New Year we all reflect, at least some of us do, on what we did wrong in 2013 and how we can do it better. Let see, I dated a jerk then so no more jerks for me, haha. That's one thought but since I am a pretty optimistic gal and very ambitious I wrote some things down myself. Overall, I just want to dedicated myself to family, career and life. 2013 was a year of firsts for me. It was also the year that I failed to keep a consistent exercise routine. I don't eat a lot for those who do not know me. I am a socialite. SO I LOVE FOOD, DRINKS and GOOD COMPANY! but who doesn't?
I learned a lot about myself in 2013 as well. I learned that I can keep setting goals for myself and accomplishing them. For 2014 I have decided to step out my comfort zone and dream BIGGER! I def want to meet Oprah for SURE! I have had two dreams about her. In my first dream, I dreamt that she was in my little country home, in the kitchen sitting down and talking with me. I was cooking for her. I can't remember what I was cooking but she was sitting in my little country kitchen table and just waiting to see what I had prepared for her. We talked, laughed and told me that she thought I was one amazing woman and that she had to meet me. I woke up that day as if I had met her in real life! I then had another recurring dream about her, same, similar but this time it felt like I had to put it on my secret board to meet her in person. I really want to. I want to share with her my story, my love story as well because that says a lot about who I am especially my upbringing.
I traveled the state before the new year came around. I spent it with family, more specific my bro and his family in West Texas and I am glad I made the trip out. I get so caught up with my work and priorities that I fail to put my siblings and continue to make memories with them a priority. I am a family girl so this aspect of my life is very important to me. My nieces and nephews even asked if I can see them more often. So, I made a promise and I will follow through. My eldest nephew has also asked that I spend time with him so I am def doing a lot of traveling and especially get to visit some of the Food Networks food stars travels like Guy Fieri and Adam from Man vs Food. My Mari vs Food adventures will def be taking on outside of Texas restaurants.
Oh and if you don't remember from my last post, a guy who is not important today said I was, "FAT" yes, he said that. Didn't really hurt my self-esteem but he did make me reflect on my health goals and plans. So, this year I have hired a personal trainer to get me where I want to be fitness-wise. My trainer is AMAZING! and I am so excited to share with you my transformation with her help, because I need it. So, stay tuned. I intend to blog more so than ever! So follow me :-)
Peace and Love
I learned a lot about myself in 2013 as well. I learned that I can keep setting goals for myself and accomplishing them. For 2014 I have decided to step out my comfort zone and dream BIGGER! I def want to meet Oprah for SURE! I have had two dreams about her. In my first dream, I dreamt that she was in my little country home, in the kitchen sitting down and talking with me. I was cooking for her. I can't remember what I was cooking but she was sitting in my little country kitchen table and just waiting to see what I had prepared for her. We talked, laughed and told me that she thought I was one amazing woman and that she had to meet me. I woke up that day as if I had met her in real life! I then had another recurring dream about her, same, similar but this time it felt like I had to put it on my secret board to meet her in person. I really want to. I want to share with her my story, my love story as well because that says a lot about who I am especially my upbringing.
I traveled the state before the new year came around. I spent it with family, more specific my bro and his family in West Texas and I am glad I made the trip out. I get so caught up with my work and priorities that I fail to put my siblings and continue to make memories with them a priority. I am a family girl so this aspect of my life is very important to me. My nieces and nephews even asked if I can see them more often. So, I made a promise and I will follow through. My eldest nephew has also asked that I spend time with him so I am def doing a lot of traveling and especially get to visit some of the Food Networks food stars travels like Guy Fieri and Adam from Man vs Food. My Mari vs Food adventures will def be taking on outside of Texas restaurants.
Oh and if you don't remember from my last post, a guy who is not important today said I was, "FAT" yes, he said that. Didn't really hurt my self-esteem but he did make me reflect on my health goals and plans. So, this year I have hired a personal trainer to get me where I want to be fitness-wise. My trainer is AMAZING! and I am so excited to share with you my transformation with her help, because I need it. So, stay tuned. I intend to blog more so than ever! So follow me :-)
Peace and Love
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Tuesday, October 08, 2013
Beauty of the Heart
True
story: I strongly believe women are beautiful regardless of their shape
and size. But what makes them extra beautiful is their personality,
their drive, their motivation and self confidence. I'm not a shy person
and I have a strong loving character but I feel as though I should share
something with you.
When you are ready to make that change in your life go at it full force, no regrets but with ultimate desire to reach your goal. Taking control of one's life is the best thing one can do for themselves.
About a month ago a "nobody" told me he would date me if I was thinner. In response I said, well in all honesty I wouldn't date you; you lack MANY characteristics of a gentleman, thank you goodbye. It did hurt for a second but I thought of all those other woman who may not be as tough as me.
So this is my reminder to you lovely ladies - love doesn't see one's size or body shape - it sees your heart. Happy Tuesday!
My friend Brenda shared this with me upon sharing this with her. Its remarkable how powerful words can be. I choose to lift up women with similar experiences like myself with positive affirmations and acts of kindness.
Peace & Love
When you are ready to make that change in your life go at it full force, no regrets but with ultimate desire to reach your goal. Taking control of one's life is the best thing one can do for themselves.
About a month ago a "nobody" told me he would date me if I was thinner. In response I said, well in all honesty I wouldn't date you; you lack MANY characteristics of a gentleman, thank you goodbye. It did hurt for a second but I thought of all those other woman who may not be as tough as me.
So this is my reminder to you lovely ladies - love doesn't see one's size or body shape - it sees your heart. Happy Tuesday!
Peace & Love
Friday, September 20, 2013
Rain!!!
We all know how precious rain is right now in Texas. Haven't experienced the worst drought in years today seems like we are in heaven with all this rainfall lately.
As for me, not a fan of rain, I'm rather enjoying it today. This in my opinion is a gift. It's also a great sense of hope that good things are coming. I've been traveling these past two weeks to South Texas to visit family, friends and to stay involved in my social network hoping to get some good leads to keep me busy this upcoming year.
My time has been consumed with great things and today at this very moment I'm consumed in myself. I'm rather feeling some inner joy of accomplishment. I'm actually feeling very happy and complete. This rain is rather comforting me and at the same time I feel like I'm cleansing my soul at the same time. It's rather a beautiful experience!
So I leave you with this...leave your worries and all the cares in your world today. Let the rain wash them away and you will experience this this inner peace as I have.
Tootles!
As for me, not a fan of rain, I'm rather enjoying it today. This in my opinion is a gift. It's also a great sense of hope that good things are coming. I've been traveling these past two weeks to South Texas to visit family, friends and to stay involved in my social network hoping to get some good leads to keep me busy this upcoming year.
My time has been consumed with great things and today at this very moment I'm consumed in myself. I'm rather feeling some inner joy of accomplishment. I'm actually feeling very happy and complete. This rain is rather comforting me and at the same time I feel like I'm cleansing my soul at the same time. It's rather a beautiful experience!
So I leave you with this...leave your worries and all the cares in your world today. Let the rain wash them away and you will experience this this inner peace as I have.
Tootles!
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Just Kauz It's Right 3rd Annual School Supply Drive a Success
As you all know I founded a nonprofit organization about four years ago. It all started with a simple thought of giving back the community I call home, San Carlos. I was raised in San Carlos after our house burned down in downtown Edinburg on Samano Street. Life was rather interesting for growing up but that is another day for me to share.
None the less, I wanted to give back. With my crazy ideas and a best friend to root me on I took on the challenge of helping 100 students in 2009 with school supplies. You see some students show up with all their required school supply items and others don't. I wanted to try to help those students for whatever reason didn't show up school supplies or hardly any.
Our efforts help out the teachers so much. We all know the deserve better pay and some changes could be made to make their jobs easier in the classroom. To date, we have helped over 1300 students, this year alone that number would increase to 1900 students in 5 years.
We have a vision and we are excited to bring back unity into our community "Just Kauz It's Right."
None the less, I wanted to give back. With my crazy ideas and a best friend to root me on I took on the challenge of helping 100 students in 2009 with school supplies. You see some students show up with all their required school supply items and others don't. I wanted to try to help those students for whatever reason didn't show up school supplies or hardly any.
Our efforts help out the teachers so much. We all know the deserve better pay and some changes could be made to make their jobs easier in the classroom. To date, we have helped over 1300 students, this year alone that number would increase to 1900 students in 5 years.
We have a vision and we are excited to bring back unity into our community "Just Kauz It's Right."
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Remembering September 11
Today, I woke up at my best friends house. I've been traveling doing nonprofit work and all sorts of work. But on this day, I could not help to notice that its always the same pattern. Remembering what I was doing, what I was thinking when I found out the tragedy that happened in NYC.
The only people on my mind that day were my friends Monica and Frank. You see, I was supposed to have joined the military, the Marines upon high school graduation. The only thing was that my mother found out through the recruiter calling my home and told him to stop looking for me.
I was not in a training camp but I was rather at home, in my sisters bed watching live coverage on CNN on the airplane crashes in the twin towers. I will never forget the image. I made lots of calls to try to track both of my friends down and to find out they were okay and in the states. Immediately, I thought of war and everything else that would follow. I was right, we did go to war and a long war it was.
2001 seems so far away but it feels as though it was just yesterday. Time is all we have these days and at any moment it can change. I am grateful that I try to live each day and recalling days like these when innocent lives were taken only reminds me that I am blessed. I have to try to do good in this world because that's all we have, that is all we can give it.
My prayers to the innocent souls lost and those who stood in harms way for others to live.
Peace and Love. MDL
The only people on my mind that day were my friends Monica and Frank. You see, I was supposed to have joined the military, the Marines upon high school graduation. The only thing was that my mother found out through the recruiter calling my home and told him to stop looking for me.
I was not in a training camp but I was rather at home, in my sisters bed watching live coverage on CNN on the airplane crashes in the twin towers. I will never forget the image. I made lots of calls to try to track both of my friends down and to find out they were okay and in the states. Immediately, I thought of war and everything else that would follow. I was right, we did go to war and a long war it was.
2001 seems so far away but it feels as though it was just yesterday. Time is all we have these days and at any moment it can change. I am grateful that I try to live each day and recalling days like these when innocent lives were taken only reminds me that I am blessed. I have to try to do good in this world because that's all we have, that is all we can give it.
My prayers to the innocent souls lost and those who stood in harms way for others to live.
Peace and Love. MDL
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Love is Love
I've been remembering lately what it was like to be in a committed relationship where you are loved unconditionally. I can recall a time where my boyfriend bought me gifts where ever he was. The fact that he knew my taste, my size and an eye for good stuff specially for me.
This was about the most happiest time in my life. Its sad that things didn't work and it was for the best. I would not be the amazing woman I am today. You see, I have had many failed relationships. Relationships where I was liked but not loved. Relationships where there was emotional disconnect. Relationships where there was lack of communication of each others feelings.
But in the end love is love. I have a big heart! I want to share all of my life's experiences with that special someone. I want kiss him randomly as we stroll into a store together just because. Squeeze his cheeks like a little cute chubby baby and peck his lips. I am ready for love in my life and the anticipation is exciting. I can feel the joy coming. I literally have this inner joy that is unexplainable and the uncertainty of this great happiness has me excited.
I am a hopeless romantic, waiting patiently.
My tip for you would be, be open and honest with your loved one. Let him know how much he means to you. How important he is in your life. How much you need him and can't live without him. You will see how much this will help bring two loving souls together.
Peace and Love.
Monday, August 19, 2013
Dreams Do Come True - Do They Really?
When I was growing up I never imagined I would be working at the State's Capitol. My mothers dream for me was to be a teacher and educator. I attended great schools growing up in my opinion. I attended San Carlos Elementary for grade school, 6th Grade Campus, Teacher Academy where they prepared me for the education career, and lastly Med-High where I was prepared for the medical field.
Little did I know that my passion for helping people would not be so much in the position as a nurse, doctor, or surgeon but rather as a public servant. At the age of 19 I was blessed with a volunteer position that transformed the direction of my life for the best. I discovered hidden talents I did not think I could possess. I thought I would have been a 19 year old to be married in her first year of college. I guess fate has its reasons but that did not happen. I in turn became a volunteer in the Law office of Aaron Pena and Associates.
Being a volunteer and a full time grad student at The University of Texas Pan American was rather a challenging yet fun experience. I felt like my efforts and hard work would pay off. Eventually, I landed a part time job as a legislative aide in State Representative Aaron Pena office for House District 40. I must say at the age of 19 I was entrusted with a huge load of responsibility. I managed a grassroots team for Rep. Pena re-election campaign where we won 2-1. This was the first victory of any political stature I was completely involved in. This was when I knew what my gift was, public service.
My goals in life have always been to be a good worker, a good person and most importantly to make my parents proud. Do dreams come true? Yes they do. I am a testament to that but it is not to say it was easy. I dedicate all of my time to extra curricular activities at the University, my job, and part-time jobs I had to obtain to just maintain myself and school.
Today I can reflect on my education and career accomplishments and I am proud to have had many mentors who believed in me and my capabilities. I am also just as proud to say that I worked hard to make sure I fulfilled every goal I set myself to accomplish. I don't think that not having a supportive family and strong family bond that I would have gotten as far as I have. My goals were in part fulfilled because of the support my family provided me with. Their belief in me that I will do good as long as I set my heart to it. From here on out, I want to be that support for those who are not as fortunate as I was growing up. I want to be that buffer for children and families out there that good people still exist. Because I am who I am because of my love for Lord Jesus Christ who is My Rock and My Savior, My Everything. It is because of His Love I can share my gifts with the world.
Dreams do come true you just have to be committed to yourself.
Little did I know that my passion for helping people would not be so much in the position as a nurse, doctor, or surgeon but rather as a public servant. At the age of 19 I was blessed with a volunteer position that transformed the direction of my life for the best. I discovered hidden talents I did not think I could possess. I thought I would have been a 19 year old to be married in her first year of college. I guess fate has its reasons but that did not happen. I in turn became a volunteer in the Law office of Aaron Pena and Associates.
Being a volunteer and a full time grad student at The University of Texas Pan American was rather a challenging yet fun experience. I felt like my efforts and hard work would pay off. Eventually, I landed a part time job as a legislative aide in State Representative Aaron Pena office for House District 40. I must say at the age of 19 I was entrusted with a huge load of responsibility. I managed a grassroots team for Rep. Pena re-election campaign where we won 2-1. This was the first victory of any political stature I was completely involved in. This was when I knew what my gift was, public service.
My goals in life have always been to be a good worker, a good person and most importantly to make my parents proud. Do dreams come true? Yes they do. I am a testament to that but it is not to say it was easy. I dedicate all of my time to extra curricular activities at the University, my job, and part-time jobs I had to obtain to just maintain myself and school.
Today I can reflect on my education and career accomplishments and I am proud to have had many mentors who believed in me and my capabilities. I am also just as proud to say that I worked hard to make sure I fulfilled every goal I set myself to accomplish. I don't think that not having a supportive family and strong family bond that I would have gotten as far as I have. My goals were in part fulfilled because of the support my family provided me with. Their belief in me that I will do good as long as I set my heart to it. From here on out, I want to be that support for those who are not as fortunate as I was growing up. I want to be that buffer for children and families out there that good people still exist. Because I am who I am because of my love for Lord Jesus Christ who is My Rock and My Savior, My Everything. It is because of His Love I can share my gifts with the world.
Dreams do come true you just have to be committed to yourself.
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Love is Wonderful
Last year was the hardest year for me. I was literally going through a transitional phase professionally but also was dealing with the death of my Grandfather. Bereavement...what is that? I think its a fancy word. But I don't think I have gotten through the phase. You see, I miss my grandfather dearly. Its been rather challenging having to visit my grandmother. Yes, it is that difficult. You see, I can see she misses him so much. I can see the love she had for him. Real Love. Love that at times I feel as though I will never experience. My grandparents married each other and were inseparable after. So, again its tough knowing that I was close to love through my grandparents and not seeing it anymore breaks my heart seeing my grandmother.
Some wise words my Grandpa Lucas said to me before he passed was "Sweetheart, its better to be alone than to be accompanied by someone who doesn't deserve your companionship." This will forever resonate with me. He shared with me many more things but I am going to keep them to myself. That is all I have of him. Oh yes, he did tell me to always strive for what I want in my life. To never give up. He was a strong man and to hear him encourage me with such few words are meaningful to me.
Love. Once you have had it you know the feeling when its gone. Today, I found myself wondering on whether my grandparents love exists in our day and age. I am optimistic that it still does. I am going to continue to be patient.
I guess, I am missing family. I will end on that note.
Some wise words my Grandpa Lucas said to me before he passed was "Sweetheart, its better to be alone than to be accompanied by someone who doesn't deserve your companionship." This will forever resonate with me. He shared with me many more things but I am going to keep them to myself. That is all I have of him. Oh yes, he did tell me to always strive for what I want in my life. To never give up. He was a strong man and to hear him encourage me with such few words are meaningful to me.
Love. Once you have had it you know the feeling when its gone. Today, I found myself wondering on whether my grandparents love exists in our day and age. I am optimistic that it still does. I am going to continue to be patient.
I guess, I am missing family. I will end on that note.
"Fore the Kids" Fundraiser June 30th @ 2pm
Just Kauz It's Right is committed to providing much needed school supplies to our youth in the Rio Grande Valley. It is my goal, as Founder of this organization, to spread through the state of Texas. We primarily assist rural elementary schools and plan to establish high school programs for our 9-12 students. We have long term goals for the Rio Grande Valley, South Texas and Texas as a whole. I am confident that we will touch the lives of many students with one act of kindness.
Our goal is touch one life, one life that that can change the lives of many more. I strongly believe that. So for now, if you reside in the RGV -McAllen-Pharr-Mission-Edinburg-La Joya or neighbor cities, please show your support. Together we can accomplish a lot more.
Peace and Love, Miss Mari. Founder and Chair, Just Kauz It's Right.
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Just Kauz It's Right annual "FORE the Kids" fundraiser June 30th in Pharr Texas
As Founder and Chair of Just Kauz It's Right I invite you to participate in our annual fund-raising event to be held at The Practice Tee in Pharr, Texas on Sunday, June 30th.
We are currently seeking sponsorships for our "FORE the Kids" fundraiser to assist students in the 2013-14 academic year. All donations benefit school children within Hidalgo County specifically low socio economic schools in Edinburg, La Joya and Mission Texas. The community is welcome to participate as well. Competitions for the longest range and three other competitions will be going on for $10 each competition. We will have amazing prizes. Stay tuned for our fund-raising flyer.
To date, our local non profit organization has assisted over 1500 school children with back to school supplies in the following schools:
We would like to continue our efforts in contributing to our community for the betterment of these school children. Should you be interested in becoming a sponsor please email Lyna Campos, Board Member and Fundraising Chair at lynaycampos@gmail.com CC maricela.deleon4@gmail.com.
SHOUT OUT TO OUR 2012-2013 Sponsors: The University of Phoenix - Mission Campus, Mission EDC, IBC Bank McAllen, Edinburg Boys and Girls Club, Collassa Construction, AT&T McAllen - special thanks to Sergio Contreras.
We are currently seeking sponsorships for our "FORE the Kids" fundraiser to assist students in the 2013-14 academic year. All donations benefit school children within Hidalgo County specifically low socio economic schools in Edinburg, La Joya and Mission Texas. The community is welcome to participate as well. Competitions for the longest range and three other competitions will be going on for $10 each competition. We will have amazing prizes. Stay tuned for our fund-raising flyer.
To date, our local non profit organization has assisted over 1500 school children with back to school supplies in the following schools:
San Carlos Elementary - our flagship school and my alma mater; JFK elementary in San Carlos, Dr. Mendiola Elementary in La Joya/Mission, and JFK Elementary in McAllen Texas.
We would like to continue our efforts in contributing to our community for the betterment of these school children. Should you be interested in becoming a sponsor please email Lyna Campos, Board Member and Fundraising Chair at lynaycampos@gmail.com CC maricela.deleon4@gmail.com.
SHOUT OUT TO OUR 2012-2013 Sponsors: The University of Phoenix - Mission Campus, Mission EDC, IBC Bank McAllen, Edinburg Boys and Girls Club, Collassa Construction, AT&T McAllen - special thanks to Sergio Contreras.
Monday, May 20, 2013
A Medical School In South Texas - 83rd Legislative Session
South Texas currently has two universities, two community colleges and a Region One Education Service Center. When I first arrived to work at the legislature, I can recall the efforts of Rep. Aaron Pena and the Valley delegation to bring a Medical School to South Texas - Rio Grande Valley. The first attempt failed, the second attempt passed. Now during the 83rd Legislative Session, with the efforts of Rep. Eddie Lucio III, Rep. Rene Oliveira and the rest of the Valley Delegation, they brought forth legislation to bring to fruition a medical school in South Texas.
SB 24 Sponsored by Senator Juan "Chuy" Hinojosa was laid out on the Texas House floor by Chairman Rene Olivier as the House Sponsor with Rep. Dan Branch as the co-author, today - May 20, 2013. The legislation went through many policy procedures before making it to the House floor for final passage. I am extremely excited for my community down home.
This is of good news because it marks new beginnings for the Rio Grande Valley. The two universities, The University of Texas Pan American and The University of Texas at Brownsville are now subject to a merger with a new name yet to be announced. I came across Dr. Nelsen, President of UTPA, at the State Capitol last week as the legislation went through second reading in the Texas House. He looked a little nervous but I was certain our legislators would unite for the final passage of such great policy in higher education for the benefit of the entire state.
I feel as though being near by and seeing the mechanics of the process work for the good has me humbled at heart. Not a day goes by that I do not thank the Lord for allowing me to be this close to change.
Stay tuned for more updates on this legislation.
Peace and Love.
SB 24 Sponsored by Senator Juan "Chuy" Hinojosa was laid out on the Texas House floor by Chairman Rene Olivier as the House Sponsor with Rep. Dan Branch as the co-author, today - May 20, 2013. The legislation went through many policy procedures before making it to the House floor for final passage. I am extremely excited for my community down home.
This is of good news because it marks new beginnings for the Rio Grande Valley. The two universities, The University of Texas Pan American and The University of Texas at Brownsville are now subject to a merger with a new name yet to be announced. I came across Dr. Nelsen, President of UTPA, at the State Capitol last week as the legislation went through second reading in the Texas House. He looked a little nervous but I was certain our legislators would unite for the final passage of such great policy in higher education for the benefit of the entire state.
I feel as though being near by and seeing the mechanics of the process work for the good has me humbled at heart. Not a day goes by that I do not thank the Lord for allowing me to be this close to change.
Stay tuned for more updates on this legislation.
Peace and Love.
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